I love being a coach. I really feel like I found my thing.
I love listening . I love understanding. I love hearing about people and their experiences. I like seeing the connecting parts of all of us.
And I like to help people feel better.
There’s this magic moment between a problem and a solution that feels like tingles from sunshine on the skin after a cold breeze. It’s that magical pause where you start to see that things aren’t as bad as you’ve been fearing- there’s hope.
And that’s the place I have personally arrived at so many times in my own sessions with my personal coach.
It’s like a piece of chocolate or a warm cup of tea: that feeling of not being alone.
See, that’s how I had been feeling for a long time. Alone. Misunderstood. Like what was the point of any of the things I was pursuing. Just one month cycle after the next.
I was running a business online. I was stretching in ways I never had before with conversations and rejections and new skills. And it felt awful. It felt like hopelessness. That was heavy. My nervous system, the gifts I possess in life, felt shushed and neglected. I wasn’t living a life that honored me—I was stuffing it down with the things I was told to be more like.
And on top of all the other things I was experiencing every day, is it any wonder I wanted to quit on a daily basis?
And I know you’re feeling that way now too. Like all of this social media stuff, these groups you’re a part of, these daily tasks are just all too much. You also wonder why it has to be so hard.
And you’re not the problem. There’s nothing wrong with you. It’s just that you’re doing a job online in a way taught by people who frankly don’t get you. Their needs and goals are different. Their definition of success is different. Their energy levels are different. The tasks that they find overwhelming or overstimulating or hard are different. And yes, their home-life is different. They don’t have the same demands and schedules as you. They’re at a totally different place.
And this creates dissonance. It makes you feel small, inadequate, like you can’t keep up and this industry you’ve chosen isn’t for you.
What you really want is to find out how to be happy with who you are, love your life and daily routine, work this job in a way that fulfills you, and find out who you really are and what you really want in the process.
That’s exactly what happened to me. I was drowing in a sea of my own thoughts about myself, being magnified daily by posting and interacting online with my business. Then I found my coach and I started making sense to myself. I found out who I was. I started pursuing those things. Everything else figured itself out.
That’s why I joined a community of coaches inside of Change One Woman: This collaborative community is designed for women dedicated to their own self growth, to developing their entrepreneurial skills and expanding their businesses… Because whether you are just starting out as an entreprenuer, social seller or coach, you are looking for a place where you can do it safely. Where you can be yourself. Where you can learn how to do the things.
You can work with me two ways. I am your Personal Coach and you can work with me one on one anytime by booking on my website. And I am also working inside of The Change One Women Community.
You can find yourself as you create what you want online. You can create the business, with the skills neccessary, that you have been hoping for. Find out more about this other avenue to work with me, and find more support in a larger way here: https://www.changeonewoman.com/a/2148083705/UELz6LmQ
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Writing to you here in a semi-consistent way has always been a dream of mine. I treasure being able to share this with you. Welcome home💗
✨Chasing More Life with you,
Molly Engle~
